Pauly D’s shocking break up with Aubrey O’Day!
Pauly D is hardly ever been seen dating a girl, even if he did, it didn’t go on for a long time. Just recently the couple officially broke up, in fact, many believe that the broke up last year!
The couple decided to give it another try on MBC!
There was no possible way of them getting back together they even tried to work things out on Marriage Boot Camp. An insider revealed, “Boot Camp’s most explosive veteran and music vixen, Aubrey O’Day returns with a new man! Aubrey fell for Jersey Shore’s, DJ Pauly D, and his million-dollar smile on Famously Single, but their dueling realities have put them famously in danger!”
After their break up Pauly D addressed Aubrey’s affair!
Pauly D revealed he had no idea about her affair with Donald Trump Jr., he said, “We didn’t address that at all. Yeah, I didn’t know anything about that, I guess [the news broke] after or something like that.” But this all Pauly’s side of the story, what is Aubrey’s side of the story??
Aubrey finally decides to speak up about Pauly’s abusive relationship!?
Aubrey revealed, she “truly felt tortured” in their relationship. She further revealed, “There was no healthy dialogue. There was no progressive communication. There were rules and the rules needed to be followed and when they weren’t, you were punished. I come from an abusive childhood that I’m still processing and I think that person inside of me that hasn’t quite healed was attracted to the chaos of constantly proving yourself to someone and when they were disappointed in you, fighting harder for their approval.”
She says, she “just wants to be with a man that’s kind.”
She revealed, “I think I had to go through such an extreme state where I take responsibility in the fact that I allowed it and that I said ‘Yes’ every time. I needed to be less and I justified it in my head as I can handle this. This is what this person needs to feel safe. I normally wouldn’t cross myself that much, but I got to this state after I turned 30 where I was like, I’ve chosen my career first every time … Any time a guy wanted more than my career, I sacrificed the guy. I wanted to choose the guy first this time because I want to get closer to having a family and children.”
Aubrey reveals they wanted different things in life, which is why they broke up!
Aubrey revealed, “You have this list of five things you want out of your partner and after you turn 30, you’re more aware if you want to have children, you’re more aware of the timeline so then you start going ‘Oh, well I don’t really need all five, well maybe I just need four, well maybe three is OK. The things I wanted before I was with Pauly are much different than the things I want now.”
Aubrey was “completely stripped” of “everything [she] loved about [herself]”.
She finally concluded, “I’m probably just now getting into the stage of recovery from that situation that I’m not dealing with that. Everybody’s got a job to do, so you may get killed in the edit of that job … They’re not really concerned about your feelings and the way that you experienced your stories don’t become yours the second that they call wrap on a show. They become a room full of people that have jobs to do. That’s scary.”